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Adult Discipleship and Marriage Formation

Our mission is to form adult Catholic disciples for an Apostolic Age. We provide opportunities to encounter Christ, receive on-going formation, and be equipped for effective ministry. Check back for updates as they become available!

Adult Discipleship

Rite of Election

His Eminence Timothy Michael Cardinal Dolan invites those catechumens (the unbaptized) who participated in their parish Catechumenate (OCIA) process and are ready to celebrate the three sacraments of Christian initiation this coming Easter Vigil to formally celebrate the Archdiocesan Rite of Election on the First Sunday of Lent, March 9, 2025 at 2:30 PM at Saint Patrick’s Cathedral in New York City.

Fr. Félix Varela Institute

Assisting pastors in the formation of lay leaders to serve within the parishes and Ecclesial movements in the Archdiocese of New York. 

Founded in 1973 by Cardinal Terrence Cooke, the Father Félix Varela Pastoral Institute has provided adult catechesis for thousands of Hispanic faithful, including the first Hispanic men to be ordained permanent deacons in our Archdiocese. Our Mission is to promote the preparation of Catholic Hispanics and to help pastors in the formation of lay leaders to serve in our parishes and ecclesial movements.   

Asistiendo a los pastores en la formación de líderes laicos para servir en las parroquias y movimientos eclesiales de la Arquidiócesis de Nueva York.

Fundado en 1973 por el Cardenal Terrence Cooke, el Instituto Pastoral Padre Félix Varela ha proporcionado catequesis para adultos a miles de fieles hispanos, incluidos los primeros hombres hispanos ordenados diáconos permanentes en nuestra Arquidiócesis. Nuestra misión es promover la preparación de los hispanos católicos y ayudar a los pastores en la formación de líderes laicos para servir en nuestras parroquias y movimientos eclesiales. 


Manhattan
Shrine of Our Lady of Guadalupe at St. Bernard
328 West 14th St. 
New York, NY 10014 

Peekskill
Church of the Assumption
131 Union Ave. 
Peekskill, NY 10566

 Port Chester
The Parish Of St John Bosco
16 Washington St.
Port Chester, NY 10573

Bronx
Immaculate Conception
754 Gun Hill Road
Bronx, NY 10467

 

Formed

FORMED is a wonderful resource for the people of the Archdiocese of New York!

FORMED is a Netflix-like Video On Demand and digital content service that features audio, video, ebooks and feature-length films from some of the world’s most credible Catholic sources, such as the Augustine Institute and Ignatius Press.

FORMED is free with your parish subscription.

New York Catholic Bible School

The New York Catholic Bible School Program offers the Scriptural foundations of our faith and provides ongoing formation for interested adults in the Archdiocese of New York. The Bible School helps us to deepen our knowledge of and appreciation for Sacred Scripture, enabling us to share the Word of God with those we serve.

No particular educational background is required but the Bible School is designed for the serious student.  The New York Catholic Bible School exists because:

  • There is joy and hope in the Bible
  • Being grounded in belief brings us to a deeper relationship with God
  • Intense study brings us to life-changing personal growth in spirituality and service to others
  • The whole Church is enriched by lay people equipped to lead others in exploring the Bible

The course of study leads to a Certificate in Basic Scripture Study after two years and a Certificate in Advanced Scripture Study for those who complete the full, four-year course.

Those who have Level 1 and Level 2 Catechist Certificates can use credits from the NY Bible School towards their certificate renewal (which is done every five years).

Escuela Bíblica Católica de Nueva York

El programa de la Escuela Bíblica Católica de Nueva York ofrece las bases bíblicas de nuestra fe y provee formación constante a adultos interesados dentro de la Arquidiócesis de Nueva York. La Escuela Bíblica nos ayuda a profundizar nuestro conocimiento y apreciación de las sagradas escrituras, habilitándonos a compartir la palabra de Dios con los demás. 

Aunque ninguna educación previa es necesaria, la Escuela Bíblica está diseñada para estudiantes serios. La Escuela Bíblica Católica de Nueva York existe por los siguientes motivos:

  • Hay gozo y esperanza en la biblia
  • Ahondar en nuestras creencias hace nuestra relación con Dios más profunda
  • El estudio intenso nos proporciona un crecimiento personal en espiritualidad y el servicio a otros que puede cambiar nuestras vidas.
  • La iglesia se fortalece si cuenta con personas laicas equipadas para liderar a otros a explorar la biblia

Después de dos años, este curso le proporcionará un Certificado en Estudios Bíblicos Básicos, y después de cuatro años, un Certificado en Estudios Bíblicos Avanzados para aquellos que terminen todas las clases.

Si usted es un catequista, que ha sido certificado con el Nivel 1 y 2 en la Arquidiócesis de Nueva York, la Escuela Bíblica Católica de Nueva York le proporcionará además los niveles 3 y 4 de la formación catequética. Los catequistas que terminen 2 años de estudios reciben un certificado de catequista de tercer nivel. Los catequistas que terminen los 4 años de estudios reciben un certificado de catequista de cuarto nivel.

Marriage Formation

Marriage Preparation / Pre-Cana

Congratulations on your decision to get married in the Catholic Church! We are excited to join you on this journey of faith and love.

The Archdiocesan Marriage Catechumenate offers a comprehensive program consisting of various components to prepare you for marriage. These include an online relationship inventory, online learning modules, and a Pre-Cana session, which can be attended in person or online using a hybrid model.

Marriage preparation is not limited to a single day; it is a process that allows you to explore the meaning and purpose of a Catholic marriage. It helps you discover how you can encounter God’s love and life-giving presence in new and special ways. Throughout this process, your priest, deacon, family, friends, and the parish community will provide support. There’s no need to worry or feel anxious. We are all here to assist.

The Pre-Cana portion of the Marriage Catechumenate is well-structured, offering several options for completion:

Archdiocese of New York Marriage Preparation Program

You have two choices: an in-person full-day Saturday session, or an on-demand session available for you to work on at your own pace and concluding with a Saturday one hour Zoom session. Available in English or Spanish.

To proceed with this option, visit the Pre-Cana website at archnyfamilylife.org and complete the registration process including Pre-Cana fee payment. Regardless of the Pre-Cana option you choose, online registration on the Archdiocesan Marriage Preparation Portal is expected.

Catholic Engaged Encounter

Pre-Cana Marriage Preparation to help you and your fiancé prepare for your life together as husband and wife. Our in-person retreat is an alternative program that fulfills the Pre-Cana requirements of the Archdiocese of New York and other Dioceses. Catholic Engaged Encounter of Lower Hudson Valley has been supporting engaged couples for over 45 years. “A Wedding is a Day, A Marriage is a Lifetime®”

To proceed with this option, download the brochure. Register with the Archdiocesan Marriage Preparation Portal at archnyfamilylife.org, and learn more at lowerhudsonvalley.engagedencounter.com.

Parish Sponsored/Approved Pre-Cana Session

Your parish may offer a local Pre-Cana program. In this case, you may follow the guidelines provided by your parish.

To proceed with this option, register online at archnyfamilylife.org and complete the appropriate form.

Once you have chosen one of these options, regardless of your choice, here is how you can proceed:

  1. Begin by praying about your vocation to a Catholic marriage.
    • Meet with your local parish priest or deacon (even if you plan to marry elsewhere) to discuss the wedding date, time, location, and other details.
    • Complete any forms requested by the priest or deacon.
  2. Decide on your option:
    • For the Archdiocese of New York Marriage Preparation Program option above, visit the Pre-Cana website at archnyfamilylife.org and complete the registration process including Pre-Cana fee payment.
    • For the Catholic Engaged Encounter, download the brochure. Register with the Archdiocesan Marriage Preparation Portal at archnyfamilylife.org, and learn more at lowerhudsonvalley.engagedencounter.com.
    • For the Parish Sponsored/Approved Pre-Cana Session, your parish may offer a local Pre-Cana program. In this case, you may follow the guidelines provided by the parish and also register online at archnyfamilylife.org and complete the appropriate form.
  3. Before attending the Archdiocese of New York Pre-Cana session, and after consulting with your priest or deacon, you will receive links for the following to complete:
    • One of two marriage inventories: Catholic Couple Check-up or Prepare/Enrich
    • Online Learning Modules
  4. Attend the Archdiocesan approved Pre-Cana Session, either in-person, on-demand, at an approved parish, or a weekend retreat.
    • Print your Certificate of Completion and present it to your priest or deacon.
  5. Schedule follow-up meetings with your priest or deacon to fulfill any remaining requirements.
  6. Enjoy your wedding day!
FAQs
What’s the purpose of marriage preparation?

Because of marriages’ importance, the archdiocese requires and regulates an intentional marriage preparation process. Our goal is to help you to grow in love and be open to God’s graces in preparation for a happy and fulfilling marriage. There are several components to this:

  • To determine whether you have the basic elements of a psychological, intellectual, moral and legal capability for marriage and family life
  • To foster a clear awareness of the essential characteristics of Catholic marriage: unity, fidelity, indissolubility, and fruitfulness
  • To offer an opportunity for deepening your personal faith and to help you discover of the value of the sacraments and the experience of prayer
  • To offer practical advice and assistance on married love, including marital communication and overcoming challenges
  • To provide education and support on Catholic values concerning human life and married sexuality, in keeping with the authentic teachings of the Church.
What are the requirements for Catholic sacramental marriage?
  • At least one of the spouses must be a baptized Catholic (Confirmation is not required, but recommended. Reach out to your officiant if you are interested in RCIA.)
  • The wedding must be celebrated in Catholic church in the presence of a Catholic priest/deacon/bishop and two other witnesses
  • The spouses must be free to be married (e.g., no prior valid marriages)
  • They must be psychologically mature and capable of consenting to the marriage
  • They must understand the nature of Catholic marriage (i.e., exclusive, permanent, and open to having children)
Why does the Church have so many rules about marriage?

Marriage is a sacred covenant between a man, a woman and God. It is a tremendous gift and a visible sign of God’s love and commitment to His people (Eph 5:31-32). This sacred relationship is the foundation of the family and society and the life of the Church. This  public act is celebrated as part of the Church’s liturgy and introduces couples into a  new and special stage of life in the Church. It creates a permanent and faithful bond between husband and wife and establishes significant rights and responsibilities between a couple and, eventually, their children.

Because marriage is so important, the Church wants to make sure couples are properly prepared and fully aware of what is involved. The Church’s special obligation to take care of the spiritual health of all of God’s people informs this robust and intentional preparation process.

As a result, marriage preparation is regulated and overseen by Canon Law (the Church’s universal law), the archdiocese, liturgical rules and pastoral requirements of individual parishes and priests.

Our goal is for couples to enter this process with an earnest and open heart and face issues and answer difficult questions of critical importance in advance of their marriage. These conversations, often with priest/deacon, are intended to open lines of communication and hopefully avoid problems in the future ultimately resulting in a firmer sense of confidence in their love and in the love of God.

What documents do we have to submit to our officiant?

If you’re Catholic, you’ll need to have the following documents:

  • A certificate of baptism, dated within six months of your wedding date
  • Evidence of your first communion and confirmation if applicable
  • If you’re not getting married in your home parish, your freedom to marry must be established by either a statement of “no notations” (prior valid marriages, religious vows, etc.) on your baptismal certificate (e.g., that there are no prior valid marriages, no religious vows, etc.) or a letter from your pastor

If you’re a non-Catholic Christian, you will need evidence that you were baptized (e.g., a recent baptismal certificate). Some priests/deacons will ask for a letter from a parent or other adult stating that you are free to be married (no prior marriages).

You will usually be asked to have these documents at the time of the Pre-Marital Interview (PMI).

What if one of us is Catholic and the other is not?

A marriage between a Catholic and a non-Catholic, can still be a sacramental marriage. The preparation process for the marriage remains the same except the Catholic spouse must obtain a formal permission from his/her bishop for the marriage. This is formally called “dispensation” due to “disparity of worship”.

The priest or deacon overseeing your marriage preparation will help you obtain any documents you may need. If your home parish is not within the Archdiocese, please contact them to obtain these documents.

The processing and approval of these dispensations take time, so you should start the process early (at least 6 months before the wedding is recommended.)

Please see the answer to the following question if you are curious about getting married outside of a church.

You should also be aware that there can only be one marriage ceremony. If the wedding is celebrated in the Catholic church, the priest presides, and a non-Catholic minister can offer prayers and ask a blessing on the couple. If the wedding takes place in a non-Catholic church, the minister presides, and a priest/deacon may be present to offer a prayer and blessing.

The Catholic spouse is also under serious obligation to ensure their children are raised in the Catholic faith — indeed, during one of your interviews with the priest/deacon who is overseeing your marriage preparation, the Catholic spouse must make a formal promise to that effect, and the other spouse must be made aware of that promise.

It is crucial to have open and honest communication about differences in faith and what that may mean for your future lifestyles. The robust marriage preparation process should start those conversations and help mitigate and avoid potential problems that they may cause. There are many wonderful and strong interfaith relationships in which the couples, based on their love and mutual respect, grow closer to God and each other; this is what we wish for you. Holiness is the goal, and a married couple with religious differences can still get there — and be joyfully married as well — by helping and supporting each other.

Can we get married in a place other than a church?

The answer to the question depends on whether a marriage is between two Catholics, between a Catholic and another Christian or between a Catholic and a non-Christian.

Marriage Outside of a Church — Between Two Catholics

Under Canon Law, a marriage between two Catholics must be celebrated in a parish church. The only exception is for a marriage in a Catholic chapel if one of the spouses is a student, graduate, faculty member, or has some other significant connection to the institution. Permission must be requested from the local pastor. Your priest/deacon will help you obtain permission.

Under the regulations of the Archdiocese of New York, permission is never granted for a marriage between two Catholics to be celebrated in such places as parks, restaurants, catering halls, hotels, cruise ships, or the beach.

Marriage Outside of a Church — Interfaith Situations

Out of respect for other faith communities, permission can be obtained for a wedding to celebrated at another house of worship. The Catholic spouse must obtain a “dispensation from canonical form” (a release from the formal requirements that the wedding occur in a Catholic Church, witnessed by a Catholic priest, deacon or bishop) from his/her bishop. Your priest/deacon will help you to obtain this dispensation from the Chancery Office. Obtaining the dispensation can take time, so you should start the process early.

Permission can only be granted for a wedding between a Catholic and another Christian outdoors or in a non-religious location only if the circumstances merit special permission, reserved to the judgment of the Chancery. However, permission may be given for a wedding between a Catholic and a non-Christian in a non-religious building if there are truly extraordinary circumstances.

What if one of us was married previously?

Because the Catholic Church recognizes marriage as a permanent and sacred bond between a man and woman “until death,” a person cannot enter into a second marriage while his or her previous spouse is still living.

What is a declaration of nullity / annulment?

Certain personal and spiritual elements required for a valid marriage may have been missing before the previous wedding ceremony took place. After an annulment investigation, the Church may conclude with moral certitude that no valid marriage had taken place, and the parties are free to marry someone else.

The annulment process can bring tremendous self-healing to individual whose marriage ended in divorce. It is best to contact your parish priest to begin the annulment petition process, and he will direct you to next steps. For additional information on annulments, visit this article. In the Archdiocese of New York, you can also visit the Archdiocesan Tribunal website here, or contact the Tribunal office via email at [email protected] or call 646-794-3200 for more information.

What if we’re getting married outside the Archdiocese of New York?

If you’re getting married outside of the Archdiocese of New York you should speak to the priest or deacon who will be witnessing your marriage about your marriage preparation. Often, they will be satisfied if you attend a marriage preparation program here. They also may ask you to work with a priest or deacon here regarding your marriage preparation (e.g. he may ask that a priest in your local parish do a Pre-Marital Interview). See question 13 for more information.

The spouse who is a native of the archdiocese will have to make sure certain documents are sent to the priest or deacon who will be officiating the marriage. Your local priest will send the necessary documents to the other diocese after having the Chancery Office endorse them with the archdiocesan seal.

Any dispensations or permissions required by Canon Law must be granted by the bishop of your home diocese.

What if we married civilly and want to marry in the Church?

For various reasons, a couple may have chosen to marry civilly instead of getting married in the Catholic Church. No matter the circumstances, we eagerly invite you to bring your marriage into the Catholic Church! The process to do this is called convalidation.

Even if there is not explicitly wrong with or negative about your family life and marriage dynamic, there is a tremendous beauty and strength in a Catholic and sacramental marriage that we encourage you to explore. As spouses, you can enter into a deeper and more grace-filled relationship with each other and with God by having your marriage convalidated by the Church.

Convalidation is a relatively simple process, particularly if neither of the spouses was in a prior marriage before joining their current partner. If one or both of the spouses was in a prior marriage, the partner in the earlier union must have died, or the Church must have issued a declaration of nullity (commonly called an annulment) before the convalidation process can begin.

In either case, the first step is to contact a local parish or your own parish, and make an appointment to thoroughly discuss your situation with the pastor or his delegate and determine the steps to follow.

What should we do if we’re living together?

Speak honestly and openly to your priest/deacon about the situation. Go to confession, and seek God’s forgiveness and healing.

Take a serious look at your motivations and expectations about marriage considering the current state of your relationship. Ask yourself: Am I really ready for a life-long, exclusive commitment? Am I feeling pressured to get married because of my current situation?

The best thing is to move into separate living quarters and be chaste until your wedding night. If that’s not possible because of financial concerns, you can still agree to be chaste until marriage.

Does the Church have a position on prenuptial agreements?

The Catholic Church does not have a blanket prohibition against prenuptial agreements.

Do we need to get a marriage license?

Yes. It is your responsibility to obtain and present a valid marriage license to the priest/deacon who is presiding at your wedding before the marriage ceremony. For more information about the current requirements for a marriage license, visit the  website of the New York State Department of Health.

What is the Premarital Interview (PMI)?

This is the meeting at which the priest/deacon will make sure all Canon Law requirements have been met. This brief process is another way we ensure open lines of communication and speak to the priest/deacon about anything on your mind.

Where can we get a Papal blessing for our marriage?

Many people desire a blessing from the Holy Father in anticipation of their wedding and marriage. For information about how to obtain this blessing, click here.

If you plan to marry outside the Archdiocese, you must still meet with your local parish priest to ensure any necessary permissions or dispensations are obtained. Additionally, the proper documents must be sent to the diocese where you will be married. For more information, contact Canonical Services at 646-794-2935.

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